I’ve been wanting to share this content for many months now, but was waiting for you to be ready to hear it.
You’ve been busy, doing lots of things, working on loads of projects and haven’t really been making enough time for yourself.
Your often in a frenzy, running around like a headless chook, burning the candle at both ends or being on the hamster wheel.
2019 feels like it only just started… but HELLO… wake up call we are halfway through August.
Where did the time go?
I can tell you, most of the time you wasted scrolling through social media, binging on Netflix, driving in a car to or from work, talking shit behind people’s backs or at the local bar washing away the week in the form of Rose’ or a few frothies.
When did you stop to actually slow down and recharge?
Energy and Time.
Two of the most abundant resources that we have. Yet two of the most unappreciated and neglected by busy people.
Why are you so busy forcing, pushing, grinding, hustling, doing?
As the famous philosopher and master of words Alan Watts puts it…
“If you say that getting the money is the most important thing, you’ll spend your life completely wasting your time. You’ll be doing things you don’t like doing in order to go on living, that is to go on doing things you don’t like doing, which is stupid.” – Alan Watts
To do the same thing over and over, while expecting a different result is INSANITY.
The real reason you don’t value your time is because you don’t value yourself. When you don’t value yourself, you fail to fill your bucket and when your feeling drained our self worth depreciates rapidly.
For busy teachers, parents, leaders etc. it can be hard to improve self-worth with limited time. We here it all the time, “I don’t have time to look after myself”.
That’s a bit of an oxymoron if you ask me…
“I don’t have time to practice self-love”
I call BULLSHIT.
Do you have time to watch the latest episode of Wentworth? (or even worse re-watching the first season)
How often are you plonking on the couch and scrolling through Instagram?
When we talk about fatigue, stress and burnout we are looking at an energy deficit between your inner battery and the energy demands your daily tasks are sucking from you?
If you don’t value yourself and you fail to put your health and wellbeing first, this leads to major leaks in your inner battery… these can be small or large, but by staying busy and on the treadmill with a leaking battery you're going to end up burnt out.
When you want to improve the quality of your own life it’s often best to model yourself from a wise teacher, here at Smile Teacher’s we share the very best from a range of teacher’s! My aim is to open your eyes to new things and make you want to become the best version of yourself.
Where do you start?
In this blog I have compiled a How to Reconnect with Yourself to Improve Self-Worth:
Hit the Pause Button
Creating time and space to allow yourself to reconnect is fundamental. When was the last time you spent an extended period of time by yourself, off technology and in stillness? We are so busy DOING, that we forget who we are and how to just BE our best self. Take that mental health day, call in sick, go away for the weekend, come on a Smile Teachers Retreat.
This comes unnatural to most of us, but you need to be a little SELFISH. Your wellbeing has to come above family, students, work etc. when you do this you have the ability to impact your community far more because you will be operating in overflow, not pouring from an empty cup.
This highly essential component is critical to reconnecting with yourself to improve self-worth. It is nearly impossible to reconnect with yourself without creating the time and space to allow yourself to slow down. It will feel really unnatural and selfish to do this, but you deserve it and by setting this boundary and owning your wellbeing you will find a whole new sense of self. Take back what’s yours.
Shift your beliefs about yourself with I am affirmations.
My personal coach has had me writing down I am affirmations. These short powerful sentences are repeated back to me morning and night… why? Our subconscious mind is operating 95% of the time, this is like a computer software that is programmed into us from ages 0-8… think about some of the limiting beliefs you may have about yourself, where did these come from? Most likely, that early childhood period.
I am affirmations are proven to reconstruct many of these self-limiting beliefs by suggestion. They are reprogramming and moulding our beliefs.
You can do these for 5 mins or more. There are plenty available on Youtube or you can write your own, record them onto your phone and play them back in the morning and night. Do this for 21 days and start to watch your mindset shift.
This is nothing new for many of you, but I believe too many people do not understand the real benefits of yoga. I have had many conversations with those curious about yoga. A lot of people have a misunderstanding and think that yoga is difficult, painful and self-sabotaging beliefs that stem from a lack of self-worth make you say things like “I’m not flexible enough to do yoga” “I won’t be able to do the poses and I will look like an idiot”
Yoga is unique for every person. I can say Yoga is the one modality I have been engrossed in for years that has truly allowed me to love myself more. Being comfortable with the uncomfortable, listening to the body and connecting to breath and mind are all quintessential components of yoga. The ancient practice of Yin especially is a soft, gentle and deeply transformational experience where many of my “ah-huh” moments of self-realisation have occurred.
If you’re struggling to switch off, find it hard to meditate or really need to work on body image issues, loving yourself and learning to soften then I highly recommend starting with Yoga. Most studios offer a one month introductory offer, sign up for 2-3 classes a week and see how you go.
Busy family? Schedule in an at home class with one of the following:
Find Your Ikigai
Initially I picked up the book in 2017 and was mesmerised…we all have a personal Ikigai, a calling, passion or larger purpose, if we are not in alignment with our true purpose we are going to experience lack of fulfillment, energy leaks and a reduced sense of self-worth.
There is no simple, direct translation into English for the Japanese word ikigai. It roughly means the
“thing that you live for” or “the reason for which you get up in the morning.” In a nutshell, it
encompasses the idea that happiness in life is about more than money or a fancy job title.
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